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The Desire to Succeed does not guarantee success
Hindrances, Set-backs, Challenges of life not only heighten your desire to break loose, it also heightens your level of frustration and disappointment knowing that the more you try to break loose, the more you're being tied. Sometimes these limitations could result form
- Addiction (Drug, P*rn, Sleep, Food, Gambling,Video games)
- Disappointments from people especially from those you don't expect to dis you
- Short-Sightedness (Inability to see beyond your nose. When this happens, you lack motivation to move forward, you lack the drive to get better)
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You need
- Discovery : Take a deep look inward, be sincere with yourself what is limiting you and your progress. Write them down on a sheet of paper,The next big step is BURN IT. I mean bur-bur-burn it. This bold step not only makes you conscious of the need to change for a better life, it rewires your brain to knowing that you really, really don't want a limiting life any longer.
- Decision : From all appearance of evil, you're to RUN AWAY! I mean, take to your heels. Decision is invalid when there's no action. You won't get anything done unless you decide to get it done. If you want a better life, decide to be better. If you want a more productive life, it takes decision to make that possible. The decision making process might require you shed off, remove, stop, reduce somethings. Be definite and be precise about what you want and don't want in your life. Take Action.
- Reach Out : There's always someone somewhere willing to give freely what you need badly, and this cannot be discovered when you don't reach out to others. No one has ever succeeded in isolation. Reach Out when things are not as expected. When you reach out, you attract ideas, solutions and people that lift you up. When you reach out, your burdens are lifted.